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Volume Fourteen, Number Two July, 2014

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You write in order to change the world knowing perfectly well that you probably can't, but also knowing that [writing] is indispensable to the world. The world changes according to the way people see it, and if you alter even by a millimeter the way people look at reality, then you can change it." -- James Baldwin *About Bobbing Around
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*From me to you
A problem
New stories published
Letter to an asylum seeker on Manus Island
Ascending Spiral on USA Book News

*Responses to past issues
Carolyn Howard-Johnson, with a writing tip
Congrats on 14 years

*Politics
The way to stop corporate lawbreaking is to prosecute the people who break the law, says Robert Reich
Stop future whale murder
Who will pay for all that coal? Not China!
Australian budget takes from ordinary citizens to fund...
A Republican for a carbon tax
Remind me, why did Bush invade Iraq?
Muslim-kicking
Advance Australia Fair? What to do about growing inequality in Australia, from David Morawetz

*Environment
Sea level rise problems -- NOW
How to Avoid Population Overshoot and Collapse, by Dr Michael Mills
Climate change deniers: video by George Marshall
New web site for Climate Reality Project
AVAAZ: We can reverse global idiocy in 100 days
Peak water is here, by VL Baker

*Good news
Oxford University under pressure to divest
Solar on the rise
US mayors a major force for the good
Solar India
Let's follow Finland
Brazil has slowed deforestation in the Amazon
International Cities of Peace

*Humanitarian
We should all be like this 11 year old boy
Love Makes a Way

*Technology
Wind turbine technology flies
Electric vehicle charging made easy
Some solar panels are cleaner than others

*Deeper issues
DOWNSIZING THE ECONOMY by Chris Mardon (a must-read)
A bit of wisdom, from Janis Silverman
Forgiveness
Dr Glen Barry: I too have a dream
Who is a primitive savage?
Best friends
Torn Between Russia and the West -- Is There a Third Way for Ukraine? by Martin Winiecki
Extremes of Inequality and limits to wealth, by Dr Peter Cock

*Psychology
Recognizing Each Child's Particular Genius, by Laura Grace Weldon
On "mental illness," from Alfredo
How to have a good relationship
I'm so ashamed of my mistake!
How can I live with having committed sexual abuse?

*Health
Roundup doubles your risk of lymphoma

*For writers
Half the job done...

*What my friends want you to know
Book contest CALL FOR ENTRIES
Jan Sikes: new book with a music CD
Carolyn shares with writers * 2
Creative Collectives: Upcoming Workshops
Summer of Peace summit, June 13 to September 21, 2014
Clean Drinking Water to Tibetan Refugees
Sea Shepherd movie online
The Branches of Time, by Luca Rossi

*Reviews
Recover: Healing And Renewal, by Janis Silverman
Healing Scripts CD, reviewed by Janis Silverman
Cancer: A personal challenge, reviewed by Janis Silverman
The Open-Source Everything Manifesto: Transparency, Truth and Trust, by Robert David Steele, reviewed by Nafeez Mosaddeq Ahmed
Ascending Spiral, reviewed by Shirley Martin
Calm Ground, by Megan Williams
The Convict and the Rose, by Jan Sikes
The Abduction of Joshua Bloom, by Michael Thal

*A bit of fun
Francis and Tony
A new version of the Serenity Prayer
Priorities
Advice to politicians


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From me to you


A problem
New stories published
Letter to an asylum seeker on Manus Island
Ascending Spiral on USA Book News


A problem

I have a terrible problem: every now and then I find myself in 100% contentment. This moment is just right, I don't want to change anything. Do you think I should go on medication to stop it?

New stories published

If you have a smartphone, you can download an app, and read free and cheap short stories on it, published by Ether Books. They have just notified me of the acceptance of my fourth story with them: The lost puppy. It already has one 5 star review. Ether have also organised a flash fiction contest in association with Raging Aardvark Publications. They have accepted my story New. Part of the contest is to send the story as flash fiction to Ether, and the contest is judged in part by the number of downloads. Both these stories are available FREE. The more people download , the better chance this story has of winning. Once you've grabbed the app, you can access the story.

Letter to an asylum seeker on Manus Island

One of the people I admire the most is Julian Burnside, an Australian lawyer who is passionate, and effective, in fighting human rights abuses. He has organised a letter writing campaign to the unfortunate people who fled torture and persecution, and then fall into the clutches of the Australian government, which imposes torture and persecution on them. Here is my letter to some unknown asylum seeker, caught in hell. Dear Friend, I want you to know that I am like many other Australians. I want to invite you into this country. I do not like what the Australian government is doing to people like you. I know you took terrible risks to get away from a country where you lived in fear. While it is reasonable for Australia to try to stop criminals and people who are not really refugees, this could be done in a decent manner, the way it is done by many other countries. I am ashamed of what my country's government is doing. I am active in working for a better life for people like you, and just want to know that you are not alone. Maybe we can meet one day, and I hope you will write back. Yours in friendship, Bob Dr Bob Rich


My publisher, Victor Volkman, has been notified that Ascending Spiral will be listed on USA Book News. I just thought I'd tell you. :)

Responses to past issues

Carolyn Howard-Johnson, with a writing tip
Congrats on 14 years

 

Carolyn Howard-Johnson

Bob, your article on prologues made me think this tip might work for your readers: An article in your's last newsletter confirmed to me once again that many people don't read prologues, even though a prologue can bring a greater understanding to the story at hand. I sometimes advise my editing clients not to title their prologues 'Prologue.' Call if something more provocative, something like "The Day Before the First of May," depending on its content, of course. Carolyn Howard-Johnson, author of the multi award-winning The Frugal Editor. {frugaleditor.jpg already uploaded}

Congrats on 14 years

57 separate people were kind enough to congratulate me on having achieved the 14th year of Bobbing Around. Thank you. You'll find the archives to be a mine of useful and interesting articles from a very wide range of sources, including me.

Politics


The way to stop corporate lawbreaking is to prosecute the people who break the law says Robert Reich
Stop future whale murder
Who will pay for all that coal? Not China!
Australian budget takes from ordinary citizens to fund...
A Republican for a carbon tax
Remind me, why did Bush invade Iraq?
Muslim-kicking
Advance Australia Fair? What to do about growing inequality in Australia from David Morawetz

 

The way to stop corporate lawbreaking is to prosecute the people who break the law
says Robert Reich

Under the law, crazily, corporations are considered people. This has all sorts of benefits -- to those who make the decisions that lead to criminal actions against corporations. In the Australian Capital Territory, a person (human being) can go to jail if someone dies on the job, and this is proven to be due to negligence by the employer. Robert Reich probably doesn't know about this wise law. However, he would like to apply it to all corporate crime. More power to him. Read the report. Reich's proposal is needed, as discussed here. {corporatecriminal.gif} PS I like this bloke because I was also Robert Reich until I changed my name at 17 years of age.

Stop future whale murder

IFAW has organised a campaign, asking people to write in 100 words or less why Japan should be forbidden from whaling in Antarctic waters, regardless of what new "scientific" bullshit plan they come up with. Unfortunately, deadline for submissions is 30th June. I hope you've heard about it in time. Here is my submission: Research shows that cetaceans are as intelligent as humans. They use language, grieve losses, are able to act altruistically, and have been demonstrated to have many other abilities humans arrogantly assume only they are able to do. Therefore killing cetaceans of any size is murder. Eating them is cannibalism. A second reason is that Japan has huge quantities of unsold whale meat. There is no economic justification for more killing. :) Bob

Who will pay for all that coal? Not China!

Carbon Tracker is an organisation of economists whose aim is to move the global economy onto a sustainable basis. Their latest report should be an eye-opener to decision-makers in countries that hope to make big money from carbon still in the ground. The three most vulnerable countries are, on order of likely damage, Australia, Indonesia and China. Currently, about half the thermal coal burnt globally fuels electricity in China. Results include the terrible air pollution problems that country is now famous for, and environmental damage from coal mining. There is sufficient civil dissatisfaction that the rulers of China have taken notice. Given the facility of a totalitarian country, they have changed direction, and from now on, coal consumption will rapidly decrease. It does help that cheap alternatives are now available. The Australian and Queensland governments have been riding roughshod over the desires of the majority of the population, pushing through what is planned to be the largest coal mine ever (including areas of environmental significance), and destroying the Great Barrier Reef in creating a huge expansion of coal ports. Of course, they won't pay any attention to a bunch of hippy green economists. However, those who consider investing in these projects should read the report. You can protect yourself by taking your money out of any bank, superannuation fund or other investment company that has money in these suicide ventures. Before you do so, let them know why. {coalmine.jpg}

Australian budget takes from ordinary citizens to fund...

Torture of asylum seekers. $125,856 per hour. This is what it costs the Abbott Government to detain 2,450 refugees on Nauru and Manus Island. In Australian politics there is no shortage of money for bad ideas. Source: Asylum Seeker Resource Centre {costnauru.jpg} {cave.jpg}

A Republican for a carbon tax

George W. Bush's Treasury Secretary, Henry M. Paulson Jr., has made a public statement acknowledging the seriousness of climate change, and called for sensible action as a matter of urgency. Read a report. {paulson.jpg}

Remind me, why did Bush invade Iraq?

Read this article in the Ecologist and all will be clear. "Prior to the 2003 invasion and occupation of Iraq, US and other western oil companies were all but completely shut out of Iraq's oil market. But thanks to the invasion and occupation, the companies are now back inside Iraq and producing oil there for the first time since being forced out of the country in 1973." {iraqoil.jpg}

Muslim-kicking

Dear Faithful America member, This is how Christianity gets a bad name: A pastor running for Congress in Georgia is making national headlines for stating that Islam isn't a religion and isn't protected by the Constitution's guarantee of religious freedom. Jody Hice has based his political career on his Christian faith -- fighting to display the Ten Commandments at a local courthouse, and organizing fellow pastors to endorse Republican political candidates from the pulpit. But the truth is that Hice's fear-mongering about Muslims has nothing to do with Christianity, and everything to do with political extremism. We need to show he doesn't speak for Christians right now, while his words are still in the news. Tell GOP pastor: Apologize for attacking Muslims and giving Christianity a bad name. Thanks! -- Michael Sherrard

Advance Australia Fair? What to do about growing inequality in Australia
from David Morawetz

I am a co-author of the report, which was published by Australia21 in collaboration with The Australia Institute. BELOW are some brief summarising remarks I made before John Hewson launched the report in Parliament House Canberra on 11th June, 2014. You can download a free copy of the report, or purchase a hard copy. If you would like to help contribute to a national conversation on our growing inequality and what to do about it, please feel free to forward this email to anyone you think may be interested, add the link to Facebook or Twitter, etc. Thanks and best wishes, David Dr David Morawetz Counselling Psychologist Formerly Associate Professor of Economics at Boston University Founder and Director, Social Justice Fund (a sub-fund of the Australian Communities Foundation)

Brief summarising remarks before John Hewson launched the new report

What kind of Australia do we want for our children and grandchildren? Do we want a country in which children who happen to be born into poor families have the same life chances as children who are born into rich families -- a fair go for all? Australia has a long and proud tradition of egalitarianism. But in the last decade, the richest 10 per cent of Australians enjoyed almost 50 per cent of the growth in incomes, and the richest 1 per cent received 22 per cent of the gains. At the same time, after 23 years of uninterrupted economic growth, one child in six in Australia lives below the poverty line. The poverty line in 2010 for a couple with two children was $752 a week, or $27 per person per day. The current level of inequality and its rate of growth are bad for all Australians, poor and rich. Furthermore: Growing inequality is bad for efficiency, economic growth and long-term prosperity. Who says so? Nobel Prize winning economist Joseph Stiglitz, the OECD, and even the traditionally conservative and free-market International Monetary Fund and The Economist. The Governor of the Bank of England said it as well a couple of weeks ago. Australia’s increase in inequality has come about in part as a consequence of changes in public policy. For example, in the tax cuts of the past seven years, the top 10% have received more benefit than the bottom 80% combined. Therefore inequality can be reduced through changes in public policy as well. We have many policy levers available to reduce inequality -- we know what needs to be done. This report suggests ten ways to Advance Australia in a Fairer manner -- they are summarised on the back cover of the report. Global concern about inequality is great. Yet in Australia, serious public discussion about it has barely begun. Politicians will not act as long as the community accepts growing inequality passively. Using remedial levers like our 10 proposed ways to Advance Australia Fair is never straightforward. There is likely to be opposition from those whose income, power and influence will be diminished under a fairer distribution of income and wealth. What we need now as the next step to significant and lasting reduction of inequality is to develop a national conversation about how inequality is impacting on our lives, our culture, our economy and our society. It is hoped that the release of this report might be used as an opportunity to engage the media and groups from civil society in this conversation – churches, schools, Indigenous communities, young people, older people, social policy organisations, and many more. In the 21st century, do we want to re-establish Australia as a country where everyone has a fair go? If so, let’s start a national conversation about it -- and let’s make it happen. Can such a national conversation bring about real change? The recent success of the introduction of the National Disability Insurance Scheme is encouraging in this regard.

Environment

Sea level rise problems -- NOW
How to Avoid Population Overshoot and Collapse by Dr Michael Mills
Climate change deniers: video by George Marshall
New web site for Climate Reality Project
AVAAZ: We can reverse global idiocy in 100 days
Peak water is here by VL Baker

 

Sea level rise problems -- NOW

The effects of climate change on sea levels are usually phrased as if they were a problem for the future: "by 2100..." Due to a combination of circumstances, there is an American city that suffers from this problem right now. Read the report. {sealevel.jpg} Cartoon by Nick Kim

How to Avoid Population Overshoot and Collapse
by Dr Michael Mills

This article is an excellent primer on population dynamics. It is a must-read support for decisions about having children. {expobreak.gif}

Climate change deniers: video by George Marshall

I offer a Skype-based interactive workshop on how to move the opinions of climate change deniers. Instead, or as well as, you will get major benefit from watching an excellent video presentation on the topic by British expert George Marshall.

New web site for Climate Reality Project

{climatereality.jpg} Hey Bob, We have an exciting announcement today: we've just launched our brand new website! We designed the website to be a tool for action for people like you -- and we hope you'll use it monthly, weekly, even daily. Your actions, whether large or small, will add up with those of thousands of fellow supporters and build real momentum for climate solutions. Check out the new website today and help power the revolution for climate action.
The last ice age happened in 6 months. 6 months for the planet to unleash an army of apartment-building-size ice blocks across Europe and the United States. It was a climate tipping point where the balance is knocked completely out of control and threatens the survival of everything -- and three more tipping points exactly like it are on the verge of happening.

AVAAZ: We can reverse global idiocy in 100 days

It's our "holy shit" climate moment according to a leading NASA scientist, and only a holy shit massive coordinated day of action response, right now, can change the future we're facing. One agreement with common sense steps to end dirty energy can save us. That's why the UN has called an urgent climate meeting in just over 100 days with all major world leaders -- if we greet them on September 20th with the largest ever global climate mobilisation in history we can break through the walls of mega coal, oil, and businesses that prevent even the best politicians from doing what is right. There's no way to get around how big a task this is. But together, each small action will add up into a millions-strong movement that literally drowns out the opposition and gives our leaders the best reason to break free and build a hopeful, clean and green future. Click here to join in. "Tipping points" are feedback loops, where climate change feeds back on itself and causes rapidly accelerating, catastrophic consequences. Right now, methane gas, which is 25 times worse for global warming than CO2, is frozen in our ice. But as the ice melts, the gas leaks, causing more melting and each melt loses us another layer of reflective ice shield that we rely on keep the planet cool, more methane and less ice means more warming still, and everything starts to spin out of control. And that's just one example... it's why scientists are yelling form the rooftops that we have to act now. We actually have the tools and the plan we need to make sure we don't cross into a world where tipping points destroy us. And while it will take global cooperation on a bigger scale than ever before, our 36 million-strong movement already has the people power necessary to move leaders from every country to take the first steps. Just days ago, the United States and China announced serious new plans to curb their pollution -- momentum is building ahead of next year's critical Paris climate summit where a deal could be inked, and in just over 100 days we can take it up a notch further. Taking to the streets in a record setting show of power and coordination is one of the most effective ways to create change -- from the anti-Apartheid movement in South Africa to civil rights in the US, it's sometimes been the only way. This is our chance to bring that power to the most important issue of our time: survival and a thriving future for our families, and their families and the generations of people to come. We know we can do this, and do it big. When our community was just 3 million people we held 3,000 actions on the same day to protect our planet. We're now 36 million strong, ten times the size! Imagine what we can achieve together now.

MORE INFORMATION

Global warming: it's a point of no return in West Antarctica. What happens next? (The Guardian) Report: Prepare for climate tipping points Politico) A Call to Arms: An Invitation to Demand Action on Climate Change (Rolling Stone) Mini ice age took hold of Europe in months (New Scientist)

Peak water is here by VL Baker

Today some 18 countries, containing half the world’s people, are overpumping their aquifers. Among these are the big three grain producers—China, India, and the United States—and several other populous countries, including Iran, Pakistan and Mexico. ... Due to climate change the world has quietly transitioned into a situation where water, not land, has emerged as the principal constraint on expanding food supplies. As water tables fall and as wells go dry, world food prices are rising creating conflict. Is our species up to the challenge of preserving our future? To quote climate scientist Michael E. Mann "It is only through a massive, collective effort that we will turn this ship around, but we'll need all hands on deck". Read the full report.

Good news

Oxford University under pressure to divest
Solar on the rise
US mayors a major force for the good
Solar India
Let's follow Finland
Brazil has slowed deforestation in the Amazon
International Cities of Peace

 

Oxford University under pressure to divest

In the United States, it's typically students who have the vision and courage to protest against carbon investments by their universities. To their credit, at famous Oxford University, the charge is led by senior academics. Read the report in The Ecologist. {oxford.jpg photo by Zoe Broughton}

Solar on the rise

New electricity generating capacity is being installed all the time. A report from ThinkProgress states that during the first quarter of 2014, 74% of new residential installations in the US were solar. {glenmorrisinstall.jpg}

US mayors a major force for the good

A conference of the mayors of American cities has taken note of climate change. Avoiding party politics, they have chosen a positive path.

Solar India

India's recently elected prime minister announced his government's commitment to bring solar power to every home in India over the next five years. It is mostly through the growth of huge solar plants in several states. This goal is certainly achievable. Read one of several recent reports. {solarindia.png Charanka Solar Park Gujarat, India Credit: Gujarat Energy Development Agency.} {hotliberty.jpg from https://www.facebook.com/MANDATORY}

Let's follow Finland

Despite its cold climate, Finland has legislated to reduce carbon emissions by 80%. Even though their target year is 2050, they have committed themselves to urgent action, now. One of the reasons is the increased employment opportunities sustainable energy offers.

Brazil has slowed deforestation in the Amazon

A research report in the journal Science has demonstrated this. Until recently, soy and beef production have been at the expense of the rainforest, the rivers, the indigenous people. These two agricultural activities are still vibrant, but a collection of measures have slowed the destruction.

International Cities of Peace

I have previously reported a burgeoning movement of Compassionate Cities. A related, wonderful development is the start of International Cities of Peace. To date, there are about 100 of them, and growing. Maybe you can help them grow? How about your location? My thanks to Stephen Dinan, who drew my attention to this in his newsletter "The Shift Catalyst." You can subscribe at The Shift Network.

Humanitarian

We should all be like this 11 year old boy
Love Makes a Way

 

We should all be like this 11 year old boy

{prakash.jpg} On September 4, 2010, Om Prakash was going to school along with other students in a Maruti van. But all of a sudden, the van caught fire because of a short circuit in the gas kit. The driver immediately opened his door and fled. But not Om Prakash. He broke open the van door and pulled out several of his friends alive out of a burning van, caring little about his own safety. He saved eight children. He received burn injuries on his face, back and arms, hasn't received proper medical treatment and lost one year of school.
But ask him would he put his life in danger once again if caught in a similar situation? 'Every time,' Om Prakash says. For his bravery, he has won the Sanjay Chopra Award. "You are the Inspiration for the All around the globe. We salute you for your acts of bravery." Source: Indian newspaper India AM2PM.

Love Makes a Way

Australia's government, and the Labor opposition, both think the way to deal with asylum seekers is to treat them so badly they'll go elsewhere. Not all Australians agree. There is a movement of "cranky Christians" who are engaging in nonviolent protest on the issue. Please "like" them on Facebook. {lovemakesaway.png}

Technology

Wind turbine technology flies
Electric vehicle charging made easy
Some solar panels are cleaner than others

 

Wind turbine technology flies

Treehugger has reported on several new developments, some already available, others in advanced testing stage. There is a silent one you can use to supplement a household solar system, a phone charging one weighing 4 pounds you can carry in your backpack, and one that's a helium balloon that generates lots of electricity. {batturbine.jpg}

Electric vehicle charging made easy

Envision Solar, an American solar technology company, is ready to market a near-portable solar-powered charging station for electric cars. They don't need grid connection, can be erected and dismantled very quickly and easily, and will charge up the typical electric car over about a day, or provide partial charge to a series of cars. {ev-acr.jpg}

Some solar panels are cleaner than others

Science Direct reports on a study carried out at Northwestern University and the U.S. Department of Energy's Argonne National Laboratory, which indicates that solar panels made in China have a much higher energy cost of manufacture than those made in Europe. This is partly because of the sources of electricity in the two locations. So, if you want to be environmental, sale price may not be the only thing you should look at. Naturally, this applies to everything, not only solar panels. {solarpanel.jpg} {dirtychina.jpg}

Deeper Issues


DOWNSIZING THE ECONOMY by Chris Mardon (a must-read)
A bit of wisdom from Janis Silverman
Forgiveness
Dr Glen Barry: I too have a dream
Who is a primitive savage?
Best friends
Torn Between Russia and the West -- Is There a Third Way for Ukraine? by Martin Winiecki
Extremes of Inequality and limits to wealth by Dr Peter Cock

 

DOWNSIZING THE ECONOMY
by Chris Mardon

Very rarely, I read an essay I agree with, 100%. This is one of them. Chris outlines the necessity for reversing economic growth, and discusses a number of practical steps that can be taken, now. My only addition is that this proposed program will only work through culture change. I know, I know, Bob, you're repeating yourself. Please go and read the report. {degrowth.jpg http://thetyee.ca/Life/2010/05/05/Degrowth/}

When you feel overwhelmed, love yourself more.
When you are lonely, reach out to someone in need.
If you feel depleted of energy, show kindness to others.
Are you angry? Bummed out about your situation? Write some loving words to yourself in your journal.
When it feels like there is nothing left to give, you can fill your heart and help to heal the world.

This is a quote from Janis's book Recover, reviewed below.
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Dr Glen Barry: I too have a dream

This new essay by Glen is important. If you care for justice, equity, the very survival of (human and nonhuman) life on this planet, then you need to read it. I don't agree with everything Glen says -- no two people could possibly agree on everything -- but he is calling for the kinds of changes we need. {pollutedlove.jpg}
h3>Who is a primitive savage? {primitive.jpg}

Best friends

A gentleman I only know as Brainwrap> considers this as the best photo he has ever taken. {best_friends.jpg}

"My 8-year old son and his best friend, just walking down the sidewalk together. Some moments are just too perfect."


Torn Between Russia and the West -- Is There a Third Way for Ukraine?
by Martin Winiecki

There is a third way: of cooperation, defying the three forces of Russian exploitation, western exploitation and Nazi resurgence. What's more, it will work anywhere in the world, not only in Ukraine. Read Martin's inspiring paper. {ukraine.jpg}

Extremes of Inequality and limits to wealth
by Dr Peter Cock

After centuries of successful struggle for freedom from oppressive dictatorships, we are now faced with the threats to the life of our planet and therefore having to choose wise limits to individual freedom. What limits are needed for us for the planet? Saying no is the hardest decision, especially within the politics of a democracy. How do we face up to the hard but vital policy demands of defining limits to growth to population and their demands to consume? Our Government celebrates the Asian market because there are now over 400 million middle class Asians wanting what we have, by demanding their share of the diminishing resources and sweeping aside biodiversity to share in the good life of materialism. There are billions more who would like the same, since we have done such a great job in globally marketing our avarice. This is an old, hard issue of the increasing extreme between the rich and the poor within Australia and across the globe. These extremes separate citizens from being able to understand, and together share, in responding as one to the challenges we all face. We have plenty of feel good advocacy to end poverty, which by itself merely adds more people, wanting more. Why add to their suffering by raising expectations that collectively can't be delivered? For the poor to have a just share of what they need, we need to end wealth excesses before seeking to end poverty. We need to create a sustainable population and then we can end poverty. In short, as a green I don't see how we can advocate for ending poverty when we are already consuming more than one planet. We know from research that being wealthy doesn't bring happiness. But is it realistic to have a policy for limits to wealth? For example, should there be limits to extremes of consumption such as luxury yachts, mansions, planes etc.? Should people be allowed to live alone in a 50 square house? Maybe 5-6 star resorts should be banned? Should there be a quota on how many flights a person can go on in a lifetime? Maybe we need a lifetime per capita consumption credit card as the badge of our citizenship? This is where we really need the nanny state. Banning things, however, doesn't have a good track record and therefore needs to be carefully considered. If we dare not prohibit, we can at least price more destructive, unfair habits as we have smoking. Are such choices needed, given most people's aspirations for wealth? Before we can tackle poverty, we need to look at extremes of wealth from a green perspective. History suggests that inequality is always with us and that its extremes eventually provoke revolt at its injustice. Revolutions to eliminate it have always failed, while policies have been and can be effective in limiting the scope to within a 'reasonable' range. The difficult question is, are we capable using ecological criteria to decide when enough is enough? Our own increasingly obese population on an overcrowded, unstable planet suggests we are not. Peter lectured in Sociology, Geography and Environmental Science at Monash University for over 30 years. As well as two books, he has contributed to numerous books and journals and multi-media presentations. Peter is Vice President of the Sustainable Living Foundation, and a member of the Academic Board of the Oases Graduate School. There he facilitates the units, Entering the Ecological Domain, Deepening Ecological Citizenship and Co-evolutionary Spirituality for life. In addition he sponsors and facilitates retreats for sustainable Eco-warriorship. He has a long standing commitment to the creation of alternative realities, reflected in being a co-founder of Moora Moora Ecovillage where he built a solar home in the 1970s.

Psychology

Recognizing Each Child's Particular Genius by Laura Grace Weldon
On "mental illness," from Alfredo
How to have a good relationship
I'm so ashamed of my mistake!
How can I live with having committed sexual abuse?

 

Recognizing Each Child's Particular Genius
by Laura Grace Weldon

A child's gifts can be difficult to recognize, perhaps because they tend to unfold in mysterious ways. What we might consider idiosyncrasies or problems may very well indicate a child's strengths. This idea is illustrated with several convincing examples and cogent argument. If you are in a position of being able to influence children, you'll want to read this essay.

On "mental illness"

My friend Alfredo has has written a blog that's worth reading by anyone with interest in mental health. I agree with his statement, and am looking forward to the coming publication of his book, An Artist's Creative Life with Bipolar Disorder. {alfredobook.jpg}

How to have a good relationship

I was approached by a journalist for a bullet-point list on this topic. Here is my answer: I recently retired as a counseling psychologist, after 22 years of practice.
My relationships page sets out the ways in which two people can have a good relationship, and how they can make each other suffer. The recommendations there are a plain language summary of a very large amount of research by thousands of social scientists over many years. To summarize:

I'm so ashamed of my mistake!

Last year, I did something I feel so ashamed of that I won't even say what it was. It haunts me all the time. I did something to hurt my boyfriend, and although we are still together, he occasionally mentions it so I know I really hurt him. Please help me! Tracey
The past is history. The future is a mystery. I give you a PRESENT. You can't change the past, but you can change how you react to the memory: this moment. I made a terrible mistake then. If I faced the same situation now, I would react differently. That shows I have learned from that mistake, and I am now a wiser, better person for it. There is a silver lining around the cloud: the lessons it taught me. So, because I have learned and improved, I can forgive myself, as long as I ensure that I behave in the better way I've now realised I can do. I've hurt another person. I need to apologise. I need to ensure this person knows that I have changed what I do, and I will not repeat. I need to make restitution: fix damage, offer something to make this person's present and future better. There is no need for shame or guilt, because life is here to give us opportunities for learning. This was such an opportunity, and I've learned from it. Modify this statement to uniquely suit you, then print out two copies with a beautiful appearance. One is for you, the other for him. :) Bob

How can I live with having committed sexual abuse?

Hello sir, my name is Dennis. I saw a comment that you made on a website regarding a woman who has molested children in her past but has indeed grown out of it. I don't know where to start because I have nobody to turn to. The stigma of molestation is a tainting permanent black stain on somebody and they are rightfully viewed as the sickest and most vile members of society. I emailed you because for years I have been dealing with a heinous act that I initiated when I was either a preteen or a teenager (I have blocked out a portion of my memory). This has affected me deeply and I do not wish to continue my life anymore because of this. It was an act that I committed once and never again, I never had the urge and know beyond a shadow of a doubt that I never will. It was something that I did in a moment of losing all self control and succumbing to the overwhelmingly unfamiliar hormone drive. I have lived my entire adolescent years as a socially awkward introverted hermit who was a social outcast. I recently lost my virginity at 19 and find that having sexual intercourse is something that is uncomfortable to me. I cannot appreciate a beautiful part of life because of what I did. I am so sorry beyond words, I let myself lose control and committed an act that I despise myself for. I don't know where else to turn. Your post and the way you consoled that woman without bias makes me feel that you understand. You are the first person I have ever told.
Dennis, here is a card I often give to my clients: Mistakes There is no such thing as a mistake, fault of defect. There are only learning opportunities. When you make a mistake: 1. Apologize to yourself within your heart and forgive yourself. 2. If possible and appropriate, apologize to other people affected. 3. If possible and appropriate, make restitution. 4. Work out how you can do it better next time. If you find that a past act was a mistake, that's proof that you've gained in wisdom. The worst thing you can do is to beat yourself up with shame and guilt. You are responsible for having made the mistake, and the above addresses that. You are suffering because you hate yourself for that mistake. Do your best to work toward self-forgiveness. It is not appropriate to apologize to the person you had molested, presumably a younger girl? Even if you can track that person down, it is entirely possible that she was not traumatized, and now being told of the event could harm her. If she was hurt, it's no good reopening that wound for her. You can make restitution. The woman whose cry for help I answered ended up as a volunteer visitor in a women's jail, giving compassion to women who were where she considered she'd be, "but for the grace of God." You are 19. Choose a life path that will be of benefit to people suffering sexual abuse, or people who had committed such acts and now want to reform, or work toward changing society to reduce the incidence of such events. Work for the betterment of humankind. You have already done the fourth requirement. You will always, all your life, make sure that you do no harm to others. In my preliminary answer, remember, I said that whatever is torturing you could very well be a Life Lesson? My intuition was right. Not only that, but you have already learned this Lesson, and have benefited from it. You feel like the scum of the earth, so bad you'd like to die. In fact, my dear young friend, you are at a far HIGHER level than a great many people on this planet, perhaps the majority. Most people blithely go through life causing damage to others. You are now aware that your actions have consequences, and are determined never to hurt again. Right? You made a terrible mistake THEN, 5 to 10 years ago. BECAUSE you have made that mistake, you have grown spiritually, and now have the potential to grow further. You were given a choice, then. You went the wrong way, and should not have. But because you made that mistake, you are now the person you are now: someone who lives by "Above all, do no harm." Congratulations. Can you see why you don't need to bash yourself up any more? You have committed a crime, and have punished yourself for 5 to 10 years. The exact number of years doesn't matter. The fact is, you can now stop punishing yourself. Instead, celebrate the silver lining, and dedicate your life to doing good for others, paying restitution. I have a great many grandchildren, all over the planet. Consider yourself added to that number, and do feel free to write back to me. In the way that my answer to that woman helped you, I'd like your permission to reproduce this question and answer, with identifying details removed, in my newsletter Bobbing Around. Then it may help others. Thank you for contacting me, Bob
As it is obvious from the above, this is my answer to the second email from "Dennis." There have been further exchanges, and I am delighted to let you know that he is doing very well, and has shed a great load.

Health

Roundup doubles your risk of lymphoma

 

Roundup doubles your risk of lymphoma

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Writing

Half the job done...

 

Half the job done...

So you've written a book. It's as good as you can make it, and even people willing to give an honest critique tell you it's good. You submit it to a publisher, and wonderful, it's accepted! After it goes through many trials like cover design, and final editing, and composition of the promotional blurbs and things, and if you're American, the endless wait for registration at the Library of Congress, it's available for sale. Tell you what this book is like, now. I plant a potato in a clearing in the forest. In due course, a plant comes up, and a beautiful little flower appears. {potatoflower.jpg} It is sterile: a potato reproduces from the tuber. All the same, it is beautiful. Autumn comes, and the plant wilts. During that time no one saw the flower, not even a bird. It was still part of the web of nature, and beautiful, and had a right to existence. But... but it really wasn't much use to anyone else. Do you want YOUR book, the fruit of a lot of labor, imagination, perhaps research, probably joy and anxiety, to be just a sterile flower no one ever sees? Or did you have dreams of taking the world by storm, or having lots of people read your words and benefit from them? There are many millions of other books out there. Yours is not a needle in a haystack, but a noodle in a spaghetti factory. All those people who'd love to read your book need to find out about it. This takes labor, imagination, research, joy and anxiety, invested in marketing and publicity. If you want your book to be read, YOU must do this. Your publisher is doing it too, but even a small publishing company will have dozens, perhaps hundreds of titles to push. Yours is one. Your publisher has far less emotional and financial investment in your book than you do. You are the person who knows the most about it, who can talk about it with passion and understanding. Even if you have the money to hire a publicist, for that person your book is just a job. For you, it's got to be more than that. It is a child of your spirit. You need to encourage it to grow and succeed. Otherwise, why bother to have it published?

What my friends want you to know

Book contest CALL FOR ENTRIES
Jan Sikes: new book with a music CD
Carolyn shares with writers * 2
Creative Collectives: Upcoming Workshops
Summer of Peace summit June 13 to September 21, 2014
Clean Drinking Water to Tibetan Refugees
Sea Shepherd movie online
The Branches of Time, by Luca Rossi

 

Book contest CALL FOR ENTRIES

Shelf Unbound book review magazine announces the Shelf Unbound Writing Competition for Best Independently Published Book, sponsored by Bowker. Any independently published book in any genre is eligible for entry. Entry fee is $40 per book. The winning entry will be selected by the editors of Shelf Unbound magazine. "Independently Published" books include self-published books and e-books (such as those published through CreateSpace, Lulu.com, iUniverse, etc.) and/or books and e-books published through small presses releasing less than five titles per year. Books entered in last year's competition are eligible for re-submission in this year's competition. There is no limit to the number of books an individual can enter; each book is a separate entry. The competition is open to authors worldwide; books must be in English. Any length book is eligible. This year the competition will also introduce the Pete Delohery Award for Best Sports Book, open to fiction and non-fiction sports-related books, in honor of Pete Delohery, author of the novel Lamb to the Slaughter. The official rules for the competition can be found at here. Entries are not divided into genre categories at the time of submission. To submit an entry, email a PDF or Word Doc of your entire book, including the cover, to Margaret@shelfmediagroup.com, subject line Contest Entry (or mail a physical copy of your book to: Shelf Media Group, PO Box 852321, Richardson, Texas 75085-2321), and send a check for $40 made out to Shelf Media Group to Margaret Brown, Shelf Media Group, PO Box 852321, Richardson, Texas 75085-2321, or pay via PayPal (click on this link and select "Competition Entry Fee"). All entries received (and entry fee paid) will be considered. Please include your email and book title with your entry if sending by mail. The top five books, as determined by the editors of Shelf Unbound, will receive editorial coverage in the December/January 2015 issue of Shelf Unbound. The author of the book named as the Best Independently Published book will receive editorial coverage as well as a year's worth of full-page ads in Shelf Unbound (rate card value $6,000). More than 100 books deemed by the editors as "notable" entries in the competition will also be featured in the December/January 2015 issue of Shelf Unbound. The deadline for entry is midnight on October 1, 2014. The winners will be notified by November 2, 2014. Additional information and rules can be found on our contest rules page at www.shelfmediagroup.com.

Jan Sikes: new book with a music CD

{jancd.jpg>I am thrilled to announce the release of The Convict and the Rose along with the music CD, Forty Foot High This book is the sequel to Flowers and Stone. At the end of that story, we found that Luke Stone was sentenced to many years in prison for a crime he had not committed. In The Convict and the Rose, the book opens with Luke arriving at Leavenworth Penitentiary. Both Luke and Darlina were forced to learn and grow through their many struggles to survive the twist of fate life hurled them into. The music CD that accompanies this story is a small piece of music history preserved. Out of the twelve songs on this CD, eleven were recorded inside the walls of Leavenworth Prison. You can order an autographed copy on Jan's web site, or buy the book at Amazon and the the CD separately.

I have reviewed Jan's first book previously, and The Convict and the Rose below.


Carolyn shares with writers * 2

Sharing with Writers

Published for the betterment of your writing career since 2003. To read the newest issue in pdf go to http://HowToDoItFrugally.com/newsletter_copies.htm Carolyn has published two useful and informative issues since the last Bobbing Around. Each is packed with helpful content.

Creative Collectives: Upcoming Workshops

Now touring to Australian Farms from Vic to Qld

{katemarsh.jpg} Great news! We've recently teamed up with a bunch of great self-sufficient farmers and land owners around Australia who want to help us host workshops on a larger scale. The School of Self-Sufficiency idea is becoming ever more popular and the call-out for workshops in different areas has been overwhelming, but we're responding to the demand and picking up the pace. We've got workshop coming up in Lara, VIC, Mt Macedon, VIC and then the Sunshine Coast, QLD and more to come after that. 

See details of next workshops below...